Have you failed in your romantic journey to win the heart of the woman you desire? Do you want to know how to win a girl’s heart? If your answer is “yes”, then you are at the right place.
Having failed in the past to attract the kind of women I liked because I didn’t know the secret of winning women’s heart, I took time to figure out what I could do to attract the kind of woman I wanted instead of my initial fruitless chase. The secrets that I discovered which helped began to attract the kind of women are what I want to share with you in this post.
10 Tips for Winning a Girl’s Heart
1.Win Yourself First
The first and most crucial step to winning a woman’s heart is first dealing with yourself. By winning yourself first, I mean you must discover yourself to understand your personality and what you want in life. Discovering yourself will make your life more pleasing and valuable to attract the kind of people you want to associate with, women inclusive. This will give you confidence and make your personality charming to women. Women, generally, do not want to be with a man who doesn’t know who he is and what he wants in life. They are very smart and see through you before you see them.
If you have any problem such as addiction or unemployed, sort yourself out before thinking of bringing a woman into your life. If you are addicted, for instance, to alcohol, decide to quit and seek counseling. Get a job if you don’t have any. Do this and you will attract the kind of woman you want.
2. Be Genuinely Interested
Before thinking of winning a girl’s heart, decide whether you truly need love or just flirting. You cannot show a genuine interest in a girl if you are not seriously in need of love. You can’t be enthusiastic and convincing if you are not genuinely interested. Women know who truly love. By principle, we tend to be interested in people who show genuine interest in us.
3. Look Presentable
Before thinking of winning a girl’s heart, you should appear attractive. An aphorism has it that you are addressed the way you dress. It’s important to know that women takes this saying seriously than it’s spoken. Women love showing off their men and if you don’t look presentable, your efforts in winning her will be a mirage. Make your dress sense make sense. Be smart in your look. Have your hair cut and clean your nails to look enticing.
4. Exude Confidence
Wear confidence like clothes. Nobody loves a timid person. Everyone admires boldness, including women. The confidence you show the first time you are approaching her makes a lasting impression. Be confident in yourself to draw her to yourself.
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5. Compliment her Quality and Personality
Instead of always telling her how beautiful she is, tell her how compassionate, intelligent and empathetic she is and how you are thrilled by such rare qualities.
Emphasizing always on her physical appearance is a turn off and women see it that you are not genuinely interested in them. They perceive your advance as being motivated by infatuation. Generally, women love affection and frowns at a man whose intention is merely motivated by sex.
6. Smell Nice
Bad odor can be very repugnant and women take offense at it. Before you approach her or anytime you want to see her, ensure you smell good, don’t meet her Smelling like a goat or a piece of rag, she will repulse it. Take your bath, wash and iron your clothes and apply good perfumes.
7. Be a Good Conversationalist
You must know how to initiate a good conversation, and the best way to do that is by knowing what she is interested in. Find out what interest her and strike a conversation from there and listen attentively as she expresses her thoughts and feelings.
8. Respect Others When You with Her
It’s natural to respect a woman you are emotionally attached to, but the way you treat others when you are with her will reveal who you are to her. When you treat her respectfully and other people disrespectfully, she will certainly see you as a hypocrite. Show respect to everyone whenever you’re with her. In fact, learn to respect everyone at all times, not just when you are with her.
9. Begin with Friendship
Starting with friendship when I met my woman was the best tactic that helped me win her heart wholeheartedly, because it didn’t give her the chance to start considering those unimportant qualities women prioritize, as I didn’t emphasize on love at that early stage. It gave us chance to know each better before discussing relationship. I used the opportunity to express genuine interest in her. Start with friendship first if you want to win her heart.
10. Present Relevant Gift to Her
While it’s good to gift her when necessary, it makes more sense when you present her with relevant gifts. For instance, giving her flowers when she needs a pair of shoes maybe good but it’s not relevant at that material time. So, find out what she needs at a given time before gifting her. Let your relevant gift make a way for you in her heart.
Conclusion
The success of your romantic journey depends on your willingness to master some human relations hacks that work. Decide today to win the heart of that damsel you so much desire, by following the above time-tested strategy of winning a girl’s heart. Good luck!
