We are going to explore various types of men you should never consider for marriage when you want to settle down. And as a lady who wants a healthy and lasting marriage, this article will help you to avoid mistakes that maybe detrimental in your marital journey. Read with an open mind as we get started.
10 Type of Men You Should Never Consider For Marriage
- A Man Who Doesn’t Know His Purpose in Life
As a lady looking for a man for a lifelong Commitment in marriage, it’s a wrong decision to marry a man without ambition in life. Ambition is what makes a man. And a man without ambition has no direction in life and he’s lazy. When the creator created man, the first responsibility he gave to man is work. That is, the first man ever created had work before God gave him a woman.
Therefore, the primary responsibility of a man is work. A man without ambition doesn’t know his purpose in life and doesn’t need a woman. He has shown clearly that he’s not responsible and, thus, can’t lead a family. Until you are sure that a man knows where he’s going in life and is responsible, do not consider him for marriage. The duty of a woman is to support a man; you must find a man who already has work to support. However, as a woman, you must know your own purpose in life, too.
- A Man Without Conscience
There are men who cannot distinguish between good and evil and for them, every action goes. They don’t have the fear of God. These kinds of men don’t care about what they will do not to hurt you. They are not healthy for marriage. They have developed a set of value system that doesn’t align with nature. Men without conscience can hurt you and won’t feel remorseful. I advise you think twice before considering such a man for marriage.
- The Man Who Lies a Lot
A man who lies a lot to his partner has something he is hiding from her. A liar is a manipulator and, therefore, not trustworthy. A relationship build on lies will certainly crumble. Trust is the basis of a healthy and lasting relationship. If he cannot be honest with you during dating, he will never be in marriage, so do not hope that he will change in marriage.
- An Abusive Man
Abuse can come in various forms: physically, economically, sexually and emotionally. Any man who mistreat a woman is really not healthy for marriage. A man who doesn’t care about how you feel, whether you are happy or not, is an abuser. A man who hits a woman has clearly shown that he’s weak and he’s an abuser. Once a man shows any sign of abuse during courtship, it’s an indication that you will suffer abuse in marriage. Ask yourself if you really want to live with an abuser.
- A man Who’s Suffering From Addiction
Some men are addicted to drugs, alcohol, pornography and gambling. These addictions are destructive and any man who’s addicted to any of them can make your marriage a living hell. It’s not your duty to rehabilitate a man who is suffering from an addiction, so do not consider such a man as your life-partner.
- A man Who Doesn’t Love His Family
It’s unnatural for anyone to hate his family, but if it happens, it’s an indication that something is wrong with such a person. Our parents and siblings may get into our nerves sometimes, yet we cannot hate them because they remain our parents and we can’t run away from our own root. So any man who hates his family shows he has problem and that’s a red flag. If he can hate his family, there are chances that he will abandon you tomorrow as he doesn’t place value on family.
- Control Freak
There are people who possess overwhelming domineering attitude. These kinds of men would want to control everything about a woman. In decision making, they don’t consider the opinion of their woman. They decide what their women to wear, eat, who to associate with and everything she does. I believe that these kinds of men have personality problem. Such men go as far as searching a woman’s phone to know who she relates with. Any man who falls into this is insecure and he is not healthy for marriage.
- Mummy’s Boy
A Mama’s boy is a spolt-Brat who have everything provided for him and doesn’t know his responsibility as a man. He is an effeminate man. He cannot take decision and responsibility as a man without seeking the opinion and approval of his mother. How can you commit to a man who cannot take his manly responsibility and lead his family? I’m sure you don’t want to marry such a man, my dear sisters. You need a man who knows his responsibility and can stand his ground and defend his wife.
- A Workaholic
While it’s good to work hard, it’s said that all works without play makes Jack a dull boy. A man should make out time for work and his family. There should be a balance between work and family to ensure a healthy marriage. A man who prioritizes work and doesn’t have time for family cannot make a good husband. A workaholic may provide you with all your material needs but he will never be available for your emotional need. Thus, it’s crucial that you think before accepting to marry such a man.
- A Man With Anger Issue
A hot-tempered person is a violent person. Anger is a negative emotion which, if not controlled, can be destructive. A highly temperamental person can cause harm before he realizes himself. To be safe, avoid a hot-tempered person.
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Conclusion
I’m confident that the above information will help you to spot a good man out there who will give you the happiness and peace of mind you seek in marriage. Bear in mind that there are good men and bad men out there; maintain a positive mental attitude and be on the lookout to spot a good man. Most importantly, know what you want so that you will recognize it when it comes. You will certainly find a man of your dream. Good luck!
